LOVE, DOES IT FLUCTUATE?
Love, the golden word that binds all and heals all.
Love,just a bit of it would make the world a better place.
Love makes us do crazy things.
Ever seen a full grown man breakdown in public and shed oceans of tears, uncontrollably, without shame, without remorse.
Have you ever lost the desire to eat, sleep, or even live, over the loss(breakup) of a loved one?
Love, something so divine, so sanguine, so perfect.
God's greatest gift to man( even evident in the sacrifice of his son).
In the past, i used to have a witty and sometwhat realistic definition of love; 'A four letter word that guys use to get into girls pants'.
I used to resist and fight love, and even the urge to fall in love.
I was so certain of this assumption that i brandished it about with careless abandon to whomever cared to pay attention, until nature had its way with me. I fell in love with a beautiful and extremely appealing girl and i didn't have sex(make love) with her until 8months after we started dating(Lol, i wasn't slow nor impotent). I was in strongly in love and i was willing to wait till she was ready emotionally, physically and pyschologically.
Obviously this experience changed my rebellious view on love, it killed the fight in me and sent me falling, crashing in love, never to rise again.
Why then should something this perfect , beautiful, pure, and selfless fluctuate?
Maybe it is subject to the ever constant 'change' or the forever present 'law of gravity'.
Does love really fluctuate?
I think it does, for me, at least.
Anyone who has ever been in a relationship(the exemption of friends with benefits) must and will have experienced the highs and lows of love.There are periods when the feeling of love is so intense, so thick, so strong, that you would see an extremely endowed woman with an ass the size of Nicki Minaj's and you won't even give her a second look.
That is love at its best, highest, purest peak.
There are times when it(love) is so low you would wonder "what the heck was i thinking"
Love certainly has different levels of intensity and it would only be hyprocritical and unrealistic of us to deny this, consequently and unconsciously teaching the young ones that it is forever a blissful phenomenom, nah, not possible.
There is fantasy love and true love.
Fantasy love might not fluctuate, might not waiver, might even never fight, but trust me, it is fickle deep down and wont last, never.
True love on the other hand is sometimes sweet, sometimes sad, sometimes fraught with ups and downs, but at the end of the day, you know you have something real, worth fighting for.
Love tends to fluctuate over the years and months.
Even in one day or an hour, love can and does fluctuate.
Tell me you've never been with your partner for about an hour and not felt bored and tired of them at some point.
You're nodding, yeah , that's it, that's the fluctuation.
The fluctuation does not mean that love disappears from the relationship,. It is the nature of love to fluctuate from time to time in human relationships whether we want it or not, like it or not.
Some say if love flucuates, it never was love, but i say , if love doesn't fluctuate , doesn't waiver, how do you test its limit?, its depth?, its validity?
How do you?
My friends, the moment you realise that love fluctuates in relationships, the better equipped you will be relationship-wise.
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